Apophasis
Mention something by claiming you won't mention it, a powerful indirect emphasis technique.
What & why
The move exploits a quirk of attention: telling people you will not mention something forces them to picture exactly that, since the mind cannot register the topic without first calling it up. Framing it as restraint lets you raise a damaging or self-promoting point while appearing fair, modest, or above the fray, which can soften resistance to the idea. The gap between the disclaimer and the obvious subtext often reads as wit. Overdone, it looks transparently manipulative.
Before & after
“Our competitor has serious quality problems and customer service issues.”
“I won't dwell on our competitor's recent challenges (quality issues, service complaints). Let's focus on our strengths instead.”
When you’ll use it
Diplomatic criticism: 'I won't mention our competitor's recent quality issues' while drawing attention to them
Humble bragging: 'I don't want to talk about our 300% revenue growth' while actually highlighting success
Political positioning: 'I won't bring up their past mistakes' while implicitly referencing them
Pro tip
Say you won't mention it while mentioning it. The restraint makes it more memorable than direct attack.
Questions & answers
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