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Why can a longer unpleasant experience be remembered more kindly?

Which would you choose to repeat: an unpleasant experience, or the same experience followed by a less unpleasant ending? In a 1993 cold-water study, many participants preferred the longer version. Their later choice did not simply total every uncomfortable second.

3–7 min

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  • Would remembering an experience, rating it and choosing to repeat it necessarily give the same result?
  • How could two experiences differ in total discomfort but reverse their order when judged afterward?

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